The Therapy That I Need

Back when the days that I blogged a lot and religiously, I had *ehem* quite a number of visitors. So I would anxiously checking my Nuffnang account daily to see how much earning that I got so far. You know, to cash it out for a pair of shoe. So shallow, I know.

Well, that's history.

I don't really remember checking my Nuffnang account for years until recently when I started to blog again. To my surprise, my almost non-existence self in the blogosphere did still give a decent source of passive income.  So, I thought wow... if only put in a bittttt of my whatever left energy to blog all this years I was in silence... I would have quite a number of shoes by now.

But of course, that was just my wishful thinking. In between my day job, pursuing the professional qualification, being a wife and a mom, running the house, and socialise with my friends... I would be happy if I get the time to have a proper shower. I kid you not.

I won't lie to you. I am being completely honest when I told you that I love to write and share it with people. Even I know how useless this blog is compared to millions others and not to mention how bad my grammar is (ssshhhhesssss you grammar nazi). This blog is actually my place when I need to escape from my reality.

This is the place where I get to be a model, modelling for all the cheap clothes that I have when the actual fact, I am an accountant who work in front of a computer all day long trying to reconcile every single account that my company has.

This is the place where I get to pretend that I am that social butterfly who party until wee hours on every other week when in fact, it was just a planned meet up with my same circle of friends...just at a different place and at the different time (we still had so much fun tho).

This is the place where I put in all the nice things happened to me when I was actually crying my heart out because I just had a bad day. It is easier to be positive and to note on the great things that I have in my life and not to be upset on a small matter when I jot it down.

This is my therapy.

The therapy that I need.

So, what would you do when you need a therapy?

P/S: I just got a new CPUV (Cost Per Unique Visit Campaigns) today after almost a year not having any. Feels like the 1st time. :)

www.she-sells.blogspot.com. Please contribute to my "CaKSF" (Charles and Keith Shoe Fund). Hehehe. Go go now!

Full update at www.she-sells.blogspot.com

Please please go.

You know how desperate I am to get that shoe.

:)

Blog, selendang dan Handbag Coach.

Ehem Ehem.

Sebenarnya dah takde hati nak terus berblog sebab makin hari mood untuk blog makin lama makin hilang.

Hari tu tergerak nak bukak balik blog lama tahun 2008 yang telah diprivatekan sejak awal 2009, macam kagum pun ada tengok gigih betul I update blog dulu. Mostly pasal my pregnancy journey la kan. Now ni nak post 1 entry seminggu pun menggagau. Hehe

Tapi macam tersentuh juga bila jumpa kawan-kawan diorang cakap suka baca apa I tulis (walaupun rasa macam merepek n emo je lebih). Hehhe jadi tak sampai hati pulak kalau tak update. Tapi sumpah blank taktau nak type ape.

So nak update pasal tudung and selendang ni sebenarnya tapi takde kat tangan I la pulak. Then I pulak jenis kalau nak post gambar tudung tu mesti siap nak ada model tolong pakai. hehe. Gedik lebihkan biasalahhhh.. So nantikan update from she-sells ye. Kali ni bayak juga stock tudung 4 segi buat orang-orang yang tak reti pakai selendang. Dan I berani jamin stock kali ni susah sikit kalau nak nampak orang pakai tudung yang sama ngan kita sbb material datang dari jauhhhhh.. heheh. Takpe tunggu je lah ye.

Sementara nak menunggu update pasal tudung tu boleh je jenguk2 jugak dekat blog She sells sebab my most recent entry, I ada buat charity event sikit... Ada Coach handbag and purse untuk dijual dan hasilnya adalah 100% untuk charity. Nak tau lanjut click sini.. and lets do charity in STYLE!

P/S: Coach handbag ni for limited time only ye. Cepat-cepat sebelum ketinggalan. :)

She-Sells ~ Peek a boo on our latest project.

Apart of the things that contribute to my M-I-A recently in blogosphere.

Visit www.she-sells.blogspot.com for detail update.

Hi babes,

Raya was fun right? Hehee. At least for me. Hehe.

Oh, I haven't update my weight meter reading for quite a long time already right? Ermm actually the meter has been stagnant for quite some times already. Though I hit the gym quite often but I still eat like a monster. Hehe.

Anyway, doesn't matter. At least I keep myself fit and healthy right? right? Ok mengaku tu kata-kata sedapkan hati.

Later!

I belum tengok Pisau Cukur. Now you believe me when I said I'm busy right?

Hi Guys!

I know I abandon this blog for quite some times already but I am seriously extremely busy right now.

Oh I miss yew too sweetie.

I know you are tired with me and my lame busy excuses but bear with me ok?

In the mean time, check out my sales blog so that you wont miss me much.

I've got lots of new stock coming in and more to come.

www.she-sells.blogspot.com

Something you always have to remember ~www.she-sells.blogspot.com~

Remember earlier when I told you about my mini business???

Finally i had the time to complete it in online form. Yeah babeh!

So please click www.she-sells.blogspot.com and surf your way to shopping heaven. haha.

Special promotion : Introduce yourself as my blog reader and you will entitle to a special discount. :)

H1N1, is it over?

Macam ada kemungkinan nak kena balik opis balik je..

We'll see.

Today is Friday! Yahoooooooo!

Shopping raya langsung tak buat lagi.
Kuih raya tempah 1 je. Hahaha. Berjimat cermat betul tahun ni.

On a different matter, semalam baru sign facility agreement untuk rumah hari tu..
I know.. lambat kan?
Padahal letter of offer dah sign from June lagi weh then ada amendment on July tapi September baru lawyer call nak suruh sign agreement.
Risik punya risik turn out the banker yang lembab nak mati padahal kitorang gigih call dia frequently la jugak tanya status.
Heisssyy!

Takpe yang penting banyak pengalaman dapat kutip. Tu yang penting kan?

So right now baru nak proceed repair apa yang patut maklumlah beli rumah auction je bukan rumah baru.... Itu la sebab raya tak berapa nak sakan sebab pikir cost baik pulih & harusla semangat nak decorate rumah kan.

Jadi raya pakai je lah baju 3 tahun lepas sebab orang mesti dah lupa aku ada baju tu so orang mesti ingat baju baru.

Dem it! dah bagitau kat sini mampus satu dunia tahu aku raya pakai baju 3 tahun lepas (T_T)

Notakaki: En. suami sila jadi kasihan pada saya dan ajak shopping raya weekend ni ( entry ada makna ni)

Lelong Lelong Market Place- Saturday (August 29)

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We will open a booth a here on Saturday, August 29 from 10am to 6pm.

Do come over and join us for a great bargain on Tops, dresses, pants, skirts, scarves & accessories.

See you there!

Sekitar cubaan berniaga kecil-kecilan minggu lepas.

Too tired to blog.

I got gazillions of things lining up don't even have time to breath. Ok not literaly.

Enjoy the pics.

Dua orang business women baru kenal erti penat lelah mendapatkan sesuap nasi. Bluergghhh!!

Support group. Yang perempuan penat lelah berniaga yang lelaki dtg set-up lepas tu lesapppp.

Dah tentu tentu saya bukanlah si kurus berbaju hijau. Sila diet!

Dengan bangga menayangkan hasil titik peluh berniaga yang pertama seawal jam 11 pagi. Seumur hidup 1st time jual something weihhh! Sila bangga bersama.

Anyway, we had fun! Walaupun banyak masa dihabiskan dengan surfing internet, tapi tetap berpeluh sakan sebab panas! Tengah hari hujan pulak tapi takpe semangat harus kental.

Murah hati nak bantu kami menjana pendapatan di samping dapat beramah mesra bersama si empunya blog yang cool ni. (ehem ehem). Datang beramai2 23 August ini di Sunrise Mont Kiara (sila google map sebab malas nak link. hehe) from 10am to 7pm.

NotaKaki:Jom. Jom.Jom.

KL Flea Market - Sunrise Mont Kiara

Hey ladies!

If you have nowhere to go today, do visit our booth at Sunrise Mont' Kiara, Mont' Kiara from 9am to 7pm.

Lots of cool tops, skirts, dresses, scarves, & accessories at bargain waiting for you, :)

See you there!

Saya baru saja buat salah besar, baru saja diketawakan oleh orang yang paling rapat dengan saya, dan baru saja lepas menangis.

Betul kata kasya, bukannya nama hidup kalau tak ada cabaran dan dugaan.

Tapi kenapa biasanya kita selalu elak dari menghadapi cabaran tu?

Biasanya bila kita mula cuba buat something, mesti akan ada cacat cela. Mesti akan ada salah dan silap punya. Bukan semua benda akan falls into places like we plan. Tapi biasanya bila kita buat silap, kita mula rasa menyesal kenapa kita buat benda tu at 1st place. Then kita back-off. Putus asa dan berazam tak nak lagi buat benda yang sama sebab takut buat salah lagi.

Sounds familiar?

Kadang-kadang kita dah plan baik-baik. Dah buat research cukup-cukup tapi sebab hilang fokus sekejap kita terbuat salah. Nak buat macam mana. Menyesal tak sudah? Jangan... terus cuba lagi. This time fokus dan buat yang terbaik. Learn from that mistakes, dengan izin Allah semua akan okey.

Kadang-kadang kita dah plan baik jugak, dah cukup fokus, dah buat semua research tapi jadi jugak masalah. Memang macam tu, kadang-kadang teori ni lain dari hands on experience. Yang penting berani cuba dan belajar dari silap tu. Lain kali jgn ulang silap yang sama.

Dan anggap juga kalau dah tak jadi sangat tu mungkin bukan rezeki kita.. Cuba lagi lain kali, mana tahu ada rezeki?

Biasanya silap dan salah yang melibatkan duit ni yang paling kita takut. Takut sangat nak buat apa-apa kaitan dengan duit. When it comes about money, people shut their mouth. Praying hard that everything will be ok. Tapi selagi kita bersikap macam tu, sampai bila-bila pun kita akan tetap di tahap tu.

Saya tak kata orang yang seek security ni tak bagus.. ada orang hidup cukup makan pakai dan puas hati.. Dapat BMW sebijik, rumah sebijik, dapat bagi anak-anak the best education dah puas hati. Itu pendapat masing-masing. Rezeki masing-masing. Hidup masing-masing.

Tapi yang saya tak suka bila orang anggap those who makes mistakes are losers. Ramai je yang bila dengar kisah kejatuhan/kesilapan seseorang (and they enjoy listening to it) bersyukur sebab diorang bukan di tempat mereka. They will start saying "Tu la I dah cakap benda ni risky. Nasib baik I tak buat" Lebih-lebih lagi bila melibatkan duit.

Padahal, they fail to realised that unlike them, that particular person learning something new the day they make that mistakes. If only they know how to turn the mistakes to be the best things happen to them.

Siapa yang rapat dengan saya mesti tahu betapa banyak salah dan silap saya dah buat sepanjang hidup saya. Ada yang ketawa. Ada kata padan muka. Ada juga yang besyukur mereka bukan saya. Ada yang kata saya bodoh. Ada yang kata saya loser.

Ada saya kesah? Hehe.. Adala sikit.. Kadang-kadang (selalu) saya nangis jugak. Tipula kalau saya kata tak terasa.

Unlike them, saya banyak buat mistakes. Tapi saya tahu saya buat mistakes bukan sebab saya bodoh atau loser. Tapi sebab saya berani venture into things yang mereka semua takut. They don't make mistakes because they don't dare to do the things I did at 1st place. 

Kalau kita baca the stories of sucsessfull people, kita tak sedar sebenarnya in order utk dia berjaya dia dah harungi macam-macam benda. Dia pun dah buat salah. Dia tak kan berjaya kalau the moment dia buat salah dia putus asa dan bersumpah tak nak buat lagi.

Do you know how many times Thomas Edison failed before he can invented the light bulb?

So don't limit yourself just because you hit a barrier. Try to overcome it. Change your environment. Be with someone who is supportive. Like me, I am fortunate to have such a wonderfull supportive husband to remind me how special I am each time I make a mistake. Change the way you think. At least you have the courage to try. And look for the best in everything instead of quitting and complaining.

I always remind myself with this word each time I feel like quitting. I found it from one of Robert Kiyosaki book. "You can always quit, why start now?"

I maybe miles away from sucsess that I seek. But at least I am climbing my way there. I may fall again. Hundreds or thousands of times more. I just hope that someday I'll pass you. And you don't have the reason anymore to laugh or look down at me.

NotaKaki: Saya dah nak mula langkah baru. 

Auction?

No....

I am not going to tell story about the house that we bought.

Cliche. Not relevant.

I want to share with you guys how to buy an auction property.

I am no expert. Refer to my blogroll, he is thousand time much more expert than myself.

But sorry, it will not be in this post.

I will post the entry when I am fully ready.

Takmau la share ilmu sesat kan...

Nanti jadi ketam ajar anak jalan lurus pulak.

:)

Dreaming to own a house anyone?

Snapshot for next update.
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